To Love and Be Nice...
So this is actually a response to a post my friend just did and it really spoke to me. She talked about why nice people tend to finish last when it comes to relationships. I have to say, it's so hard sometimes realize when you're being too nice. See, I thought I was the perfect combination. I knew enough about dudes that I understood that most of them, especially young ones have the ability to play you in a minute. So I thought I was "smart" enough to see that kind of guy coming, and until I met a prince, I wasn't going to be bothered. It didn't dawn on me that nobody actually looks or plans to have their heart broken. It just happens. When it happened to me, it was something I refused to accept it. I couldn't understand how love could be one-sided. I began to make excuses, including the infamous, "He really has feelings, he just doesn't know how to deal with them..." Such a load of crap! To be fair, he did tend to go back and forth with ...